You are what your deepest desire is. As your desire is, so is your intention.
As your intention is, so is your will.
As your will is, so is your deed.
As your deed is, so is your destiny."
When you say you love somebody don’t you inwardly depend on that person? When you are a child you naturally depend on your parents; you need to be cared for. As we grow older this feeling of dependency continues. Haven’t you noticed this? Without someone to lean on to give them comfort and security people feel lonely and lost.
This dependency is called LOVE. But if you observe it. It is not LOVE it is FEAR. Now it is natural to depend when you are young but if you keep on DEPENDING WHEN YOU HAVE GROWN TO MATURITY; THAT WILL MAKE YOU INCAPABLE OF THINKING; OF BEING FREE."